Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Zap!

For those of you who are interested in electric play, you may want to go to this:
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ZAP! Electric Play

Date & Time: Wednesday, March 07, 2012 · 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM

Location: Taboo Tabou - 2nd floor in Salon Cabaret
854 W Belmont Ave, Chicago Il 60657

Cost: $10

Dress code: Street clothes

Description:

Taboo Tabou is now offering a monthly adult sex-ed series taught by two of Chicago 's most informative and notorious sex educators, Ken Melvoin-Berg and Sunny Megatron.

ZAP! Electric Play is the first in the series. It will take place on Wednesday, March 7th from 7-9pm. The cost of the event is $10, we expect this event to sell out, get your tickets in advance!

TENS Units, Violet Wands, Neon Wands, where do I begin? What do they feel like? Are there differences between each one? Can these toys bring sensual and erotic play to the bedroom? How will I use them in hard core BDSM scenes? Get the answer to all these questions and more when Ken and Sunny take you through the ins and outs of electrosex toys!

During the class, you’ll get to sample a number of e-stim toys along with a wide variety of their attachments and accessories. Whether you are new to electric play or a seasoned pro, you’ll get an overview of the basics and be walked through advanced techniques. We will learn about alternate uses and get a sneak peek at some brand new products. We’ll also be giving away a Power Tripper! This new attachment for a Violet Wand/Neon Wand has not been released to the public yet!

Pre-registration is encouraged, as class size is limited. You can pre-register in the store or online here:

http://www.thealleychicago.com/servlet/the-template/Events/Page

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Yes, Master (entry 51): 10 Facts


Simplicity and brevity. Who can argue with quick, direct shots of information? Nobody! So let's get you updated on 10 very basic things to know about Master Aiden:

1.) No matter how many offers I get to do BDSM porn in Eastern European countries (there is a certain one in particular that I'm talking about.....), the answer is always going to be NO!

2.) I am a control freak outside of the dungeon as well as in it. Not in a bad, annoying way....But I just figure that if I'm pulling the strings, then we're all better off. Usually I'm right.

3.) Chains or ropes? Chains. Definitely, absolutely.


4.) I am impatient but extremely understanding (contradiction?).

5.) "Do you ever get bored doing sessions?" Never. BDSM is too weird, too case-by-case, too technical, and involves too much precision for it to ever be boring. It's always fascinating. For example (and I hate to admit this.....) but one of the things that is always popping into my head during sessions is: "Oh jeez I hope that I'm not hurting this person too much.....". I shouldn't admit that but I will any way because today is Honesty Day. Oh well.


6.) No one ever REALLY gets hurt.

7.) I am completely aware that your eyes for pain is bigger than your stomach for pain. I adjust accordingly.


8.) My longish single-tail whip is, by far, my favorite toy in the dungeon.

9.) I am aware that I give off a hardcore "Funny Games" vibe in person. I've heard this over and over but it's not intentional. Actually, that movie kind of freaks me out.

10.) My favorite music in the dungeon is Vivaldi. It just works.

Sinning In 2012

The SINSations in Leather 2012 event is on the weekend of March 30th. It's a 3-day event full of good BDSM tutorials, gear market, play times, etc., etc. in Chicago.

The link for information and signup is right HERE.

Friday, February 24, 2012

2 Days

New Rule: Sessions Must Be Requested At Least 48 Hours In Advance.

At no point am I ever waiting by the phone or computer for calls or emails.

Things are great....meaning that I'M BUSY.

Those of you who know me well know that I'm the world's strictest scheduler and that's how I run my life (I have no other choice because of normal work, Dom work, grad school, projects, etc.). A wasted hour can mean running behind on things which is never good.

If you want a session, you have to schedule it AT LEAST 48 HOURS IN ADVANCE. At least. The sooner you know when, where, and what time you want your session, the easier it will be for me to lock your session into my schedule.

I don't want people getting grouchy or resentful when I turn down what are, to me at least, last-minute requests. Why do I do that?

It's because I hate you, I think you're gross, and I don't want to session with you!!!!!!

I'm joking.

It's actually because I always have either a project, a task, or a session with another client to get to. Always. (You also have to take the travel situations into consideration, too). When I get behind on stuff, it's very, very difficult to catch back up on time so, in order to avoid that, I have to be focused on getting things done (whether it's project-related or making money) at every hour when I'm awake.

I schedule everything 2 days in advance, by the hour, so that all the meaningful/important things get done, everyone who schedules gets their sessions, etc.

Fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants requests will be denied. Sorry.

Plan ahead, please.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Today, We're All Sweethearts


Happy Valentines Day!

xo,

Master Aiden

"This Merry Band"

All dungeons need gear.....and art!

I was able to arrange an elaborate photoshoot with 6 good-lookin' scenesters (all over 25, duh) so that I could have some original photography on display at my new dungeon. Guys, girls, subs, Dommes, and Doms. The themes were BDSM iconography, bisexuality, and gothicism. Since the photos are for my dungeon, maybe that this isn't much of a surprise.....

To all of you who participated, you did an amazing job. Thanks very, very much. Little Baby Jesus (one of the photographers that I work with sometimes) called the collection "This Merry Band" which, I think, is perfect!

They're the best photos that I've ever done BUT they will not be put online (the images that you see for this posting are simply outtakes). The photos for the display are EXCLUSIVE for my dungeon as a permanent display so, if you want to see this exhibit, then you'll just have to head over here for a session.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Yes, Master (entry 50): Interview with Hylas

As you can obviously see, I love BDSM/kink art.

I had the chance to interview a deeply talented young artist who goes by the name of Hylas. He's an illustrator based in Amsterdam and his website is right here:

http://hylas.bestmalediaries.com/

I love his style and strong personal vision. The scenes featured in his work cover a wide range of bondage dreams and nightmares that I figured some of you would definitely....appreciate.

Thank you, Hylas, for taking the time to do this interview. You're the best!
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Q (Master Aiden): When did you first realise that you were interested in BDSM subject matter?


A (Hylas): I'm not sure when exactly I actually became aware of it. It must have been sometime during my early teens. But in retrospect, I realise that I've had bondage fantasies from a very, very early age; I'm talking pre-kindergarten. I remember fantasies about soldiers and other men in uniforms, tied up or wounded or otherwise 'vulnerable'. Also, a specific bondage fantasy involving Optimus Prime of the Transformers too embarrassing for words.

Q: Did you ever struggle with accepting your interests or was it something that you were comfortable with right from the beginning?

A: I've always been very comfortable with whatever sexual desires I felt. Ironically, the only time I became insecure was when I started having fantasies involving women after my coming out. That was very confusing!

Q: Your artwork is obviously appreciated on the internet. Have you had a chance to display your work in any adult art galleries in Europe? Are realtime, physical displays something that you'd ever persue?


A: Exhibiting in art galleries is not even an ambition for me. I'm just having fun, trying things out, you know? I see my work more as porn than art, if you want to make that distinction. I have no 'artistic aspirations', I'm just horny! Besides, all my work only exists as relatively low-res jpeg's; I wouldn't even know how to exhibit it in a physical space.

Q: What materials do you use to make your illustrations or are they mainly created using computer?

A: Mostly, I draw on paper with a pencil, 'ink' it with a ball-pen, and colour it in Photoshop. Really simple, basic stuff. I'm currently not even using a scanner, I just take a picture with my digicam.

Q: Many artists that I've known in my personal life have tended to be socially shy but feel that they express themselves most completely through their work. Is BDSM something that you enjoy in your personal life or is it strictly inspiration for your art?

A: Indeed, my sex-life has been mostly vanilla so far, and I'm quite happy that way. I obviously have a kinky mind, but I haven't really had the urge to act on those impulses. What's a little strange about me is that the things I fantasise about are not necessarily the things I actually enjoy in real life and vice versa, also regarding various vanilla practices. But I'm probably gonna at least dip my toe into 'serious' BDSM sometime in the near future, if only out of curiosity.

Q: It seems to me that the style of your work springs from comic books just as much as it does from what we imagine as darker gay erotica art. There's a bright, colourful tonality to your work and yet they can be surprisingly hardcore. What are some of your inspirations for creating?

A: I've always been into cartoons, from a very early age; I would watch anything and everything, as long as it was animated. I even used to watch the Adam West Batman series, just because it had an animated opening sequence, and those 'onomatopoeic word balloons'! Later I would start reading comics, mainly the X-Men; it was the 90es, and I was totally into the orient/occident hybrid of Jim Lee. Then I hit puberty; that was also the time my parents got us access to the internet, which is where I first found drawings by Etienne, aka Stephen, aka Dom Orejudos. His work simply blew my mind. Seriously, I cannot begin to express how deeply I connect with his work. I've since come across many more fantastic artists, erotic and other. I'm interested in fine arts, both contemporary and of the past; I still read comics; and of course I'm paying attention to the online gay erotic art scene. But I guess if I had to narrow it down, it's Etienne and Jim Lee. Those two had a huge impact on me.

Q: You seem to have a tendency to feature young athletic guys in precarious situations. When it comes to a lot of gay bondage art, we typically see more leather daddies and bear-types. I'm assuming that that could be your personal preference but what made you take these more unusual archetype inspirations for this particular genre of erotic art?

A: I have no idea why my mind goes there - in real life, I feel attracted to a variety of body-types and age-groups. Maybe it has to do with the super-heroic diet I grew up on? Here, the (relative) anonymity of the web comes into play. I'm working under a pseudonym; if I had my real identity attached to my work, I'd feel obliged to be more 'balanced', feature various ethnicities and body-types and age groups. But since I'm 'undercover', I'll just go where my muse takes me, and nine times out of ten, it's a place where white jocks get what they deserve!

Q: More and more these days, the new-school bondage artists are showing their heroes and heroines being abused by robots and creatures with tentacles. What is that all about!?!

A: Again, I don't really know... I think it may be the contrast between the vulnerability and humanity of the sub, and the indifference of the machine. The machine isn't sadistic, it's indifferent. It has power over the sub, but it doesn't abuse that power, nor is it forgiving in any way. The machine simply does what it's programmed to do. Something about that tension between indifference and vulnerability really connects with me.

As for tentacles... well, 'monstery' tentacles gross me out a little because I always imagine them to be slimy and smell like fish... but I'm fine with 'roboty' tentacles. I think the appeal is that tentacles have complete control over their 'victims'. They can do whatever they want to. They can touch or tug or spank, they can penetrate, they can reach every spot on your body, they can tie you up and make you contort in any way imaginable. I think they are also a bit of a 'cheat' for artists; drawing a human body interact with its surroundings in a (more or less) realistic way is more difficult than simply drawing a guy, then putting some tentacles around him.

Q: One of the things that I love about your work is that you're not afraid to use humour in the scenarios that you depict. And yet the gentlemen being spanked/bound/penetrated in your work are absolutely in frightening and sexy situations. The piece where the sailor is nudging the bound slave towards a hot furnace is especially brilliant. I feel that having a sense of humour about things is terribly underutilized within the S&M community but you seem to have a complete understanding of the visceral excitement of bondage along with the absurdity linked to it. Have you always viewed BDSM with a sense of dark comedy or was that something that you acquired fairly recently?

A: I think I know what you mean, but I've never actually thought about it. I just generally think humour is very important, I think it comes naturally to me. Not so much the 'laugh-out-loud', 'look-at-me' kind; I like subtle humour, the kind that doesn't undermine it's subject, but makes it more poignant by adding a chuckle or two. Ok, now I'm just rambling pretentiously. Anyway, my point is, taking things seriously is no excuse to be dour!

Q: So what are your future plans with your art: books? comic books? What can we look forward to from you, Hylas?

A: I haven't really been doing this for very long yet, so I'm mostly trying to improve my skills, and get some more exposure; this interview surely will help with the latter, so thanks for that! I'm just doing this for fun, so I guess I'm not exactly brimming with ambition here, but if this dirty little hobby of mine leads to some other, more 'serious' projects somewhere down the line, that would be a lovely bonus. For the time being, I'm just gonna keep drawing and blogging!
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Contact, donate, and dive into the erotic cartoon world of Hylas by visiting his website at:

http://hylas.bestmalediaries.com/