Yes, Master (entry 26): Best Of 2010

The EIC at The New Gay wanted me to whip up a last-minute "Best Of BDSM" for 2010 so here it is!

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The BDSM world is interesting because it's always fluctuating and, yet, always remains the same. I think that's why people love it so much--there's that stable foundation of reliable "comforts" as well as a consistant number of new surprises popping up that you can depend on year after year. Technology evolves and innovative toy-makers create new and wonderful ways to initiate erotic torture.

I usually like the classics. Sometimes the stuff that seems too trendy or too hyped-up usually loses its flavor and tends to fade out after a little while. But not always.

At any rate here is my, and only my, opinion on what make up the Best Of BDSM at this moment.

Best Of BDSM 2010:

-Rubber Paddles. Not only do they provide a very meaty whallop at first strike, they actually bend/bounce back and hit you again all on their own. What good sports!

-Metal Chains As Bondage. It's my medieval side coming out. And, no, they don't hurt as much as you might think. The sound, the look, the no-nonsense of it all are completely awesome.

-Hog Nips. Rubber suction cups that you apply to the nipples to temporarily swell them, increasing sensitivity and tweakability. Good times.

-Fetishwear Outside Of Leather. Yes, leather is king in the BDSM community but it's also great to see kinky types venturing outside of expensive, hard-to-completely-clean animal hides. More rubber, spandex, pleather, vinyl, and darlex are welcome and, from what I can tell, many others in the scene agree with me.

-My Leather (contradicting myself already) Bondage Gloves. Hang them from the ceiling and now you're hanging from the ceiling.

-The Violet Wand. Stimulation and fireworks for hours of fun. Just keep it below the waistline.

-Hot Wax. So simple, so old-school, so easy, so dependable. Works every time to raise the tension of a scene.

-Sara Wrap Mummification. Want a nice, fun activity for a slow Saturday afternoon?

-Clips and Clamps. Whether they're wood, metal, or rubber, climps and clamps are always and forever the best way of showing someone who's the boss.

-Single Tail Whips. Create lines and designs while you practice your aim. Everybody wins!